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	<title>Comments on: Mirror, Mirror on The Wall&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: bubblewench</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2675</link>
		<dc:creator>bubblewench</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 11:45:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am totally on board and am like you when it comes to comments.. but you respond WAY more then I do... I&#039;m lame that way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am totally on board and am like you when it comes to comments.. but you respond WAY more then I do&#8230; I&#8217;m lame that way.</p>
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		<title>By: david mcmahon</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2670</link>
		<dc:creator>david mcmahon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 22:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our thought processes are pretty similar. I always respond by email.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our thought processes are pretty similar. I always respond by email.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 02:40:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I use mainly return visits as my means of recognition for comments on my blog - I&#039;m with you there. I also prefer to email back, although I really really really suck at emailing. I have like 50 unread messages. I only get to my comments ones because they are filtered to show up with a gold star. 

Some posts, I respond on the blog, like the dancing ones because I don&#039;t really want to start a correspondence about them, which sometimes happens when you respond via email. 

Ok enough about me. I just basically agree with you is all. LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I use mainly return visits as my means of recognition for comments on my blog &#8211; I&#8217;m with you there. I also prefer to email back, although I really really really suck at emailing. I have like 50 unread messages. I only get to my comments ones because they are filtered to show up with a gold star. </p>
<p>Some posts, I respond on the blog, like the dancing ones because I don&#8217;t really want to start a correspondence about them, which sometimes happens when you respond via email. </p>
<p>Ok enough about me. I just basically agree with you is all. LOL</p>
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		<title>By: Huckdoll</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2664</link>
		<dc:creator>Huckdoll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 18:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dealing with comments is a really confusing subject for me. I agree wholeheartedly about replying to comments in commenting. I rarely if ever go back and see if the person replied to me at their blog - no time.

I used to follow the rule, you comment, I follow, but even that is really hard to keep up with. My thinking is the same as yours though - going to that person&#039;s blog and reading and sharing a comment is the best thing.

No matter what, I always feel guilty when it comes to commenting etiquette. I don&#039;t want my readers to think they are commenting into a black void. People have gone so far as to ask if I even READ my comments, which is a total insult. It&#039;s something I always struggle with.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dealing with comments is a really confusing subject for me. I agree wholeheartedly about replying to comments in commenting. I rarely if ever go back and see if the person replied to me at their blog &#8211; no time.</p>
<p>I used to follow the rule, you comment, I follow, but even that is really hard to keep up with. My thinking is the same as yours though &#8211; going to that person&#8217;s blog and reading and sharing a comment is the best thing.</p>
<p>No matter what, I always feel guilty when it comes to commenting etiquette. I don&#8217;t want my readers to think they are commenting into a black void. People have gone so far as to ask if I even READ my comments, which is a total insult. It&#8217;s something I always struggle with.</p>
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		<title>By: Molly</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2663</link>
		<dc:creator>Molly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 13:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Lilac Specs,
I saw your comment on Jenn in Holland.  I wear rose-colored glasses so your name intrigued me. Happy Fourth of July to you. I hope that your day and weekend are wonderful. 

I rarely comment back to my commenters. Sometimes, I comment back and forth to their blog, but I do love the communication with others around the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Lilac Specs,<br />
I saw your comment on Jenn in Holland.  I wear rose-colored glasses so your name intrigued me. Happy Fourth of July to you. I hope that your day and weekend are wonderful. </p>
<p>I rarely comment back to my commenters. Sometimes, I comment back and forth to their blog, but I do love the communication with others around the world.</p>
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		<title>By: judie</title>
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		<dc:creator>judie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 02:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you don&#039;t have to respond to me, as long as you know I am here and reading, that is good enough!  we will miss you at the shower, but know you are being thought of.  keep up the good writing, I love it :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you don&#8217;t have to respond to me, as long as you know I am here and reading, that is good enough!  we will miss you at the shower, but know you are being thought of.  keep up the good writing, I love it <img src='http://www.lilacspecs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Goofball</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2660</link>
		<dc:creator>Goofball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahaha I read your reply...see..I do come back sometimes ;).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahaha I read your reply&#8230;see..I do come back sometimes <img src='http://www.lilacspecs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> .</p>
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		<title>By: Lilacspecs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lilacspecs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 14:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just to clarify, I support dialogues here, of course.  I just mean, if someone comments with a specific question to me, could other bloggers refrain from answering.  If y&#039;all wanna have a spirited debate with each other and something I write sparks that, please, please feel free!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just to clarify, I support dialogues here, of course.  I just mean, if someone comments with a specific question to me, could other bloggers refrain from answering.  If y&#8217;all wanna have a spirited debate with each other and something I write sparks that, please, please feel free!</p>
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		<title>By: jen of a2eatwrite</title>
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		<dc:creator>jen of a2eatwrite</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 14:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree that you just need to do what works for you.  I think this is an issue that many of us struggle with! ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree that you just need to do what works for you.  I think this is an issue that many of us struggle with! <img src='http://www.lilacspecs.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Goofball</title>
		<link>http://www.lilacspecs.com/2008/07/mirror-mirror-on-the-wall/comment-page-1/#comment-2657</link>
		<dc:creator>Goofball</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have to comment or not comment your comments in the way that suits you best.  hey this is your blog, so no need to justify. At least, that&#039;s what I think about my blog. I have no comment rule really.

About point 1: I do come back to posts often to read the comments a day later. When I post has inspired me, then I do like to see what others think about it. I love to read answers to my comments (on blogs that do so or in an e-mail or in a chat session or ... ) or to read the other comments and their replies. Other people can be so encouraging, cheerful, witty, .... and it&#039;s a good way to discover other bloggers as well through their comments.  And I actually love it when reader comment on other comments as well.  It makes a blog rather than a one to one collection of relationships into an interactive community all triggered by a post. I think that&#039;s neat. I also reply to the replies on my comment.  I guess I like to see/start little conversations.

but I understand the difficulty of responding to &quot;woohoo&quot; comments. Such comments are great but do not require a reply.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have to comment or not comment your comments in the way that suits you best.  hey this is your blog, so no need to justify. At least, that&#8217;s what I think about my blog. I have no comment rule really.</p>
<p>About point 1: I do come back to posts often to read the comments a day later. When I post has inspired me, then I do like to see what others think about it. I love to read answers to my comments (on blogs that do so or in an e-mail or in a chat session or &#8230; ) or to read the other comments and their replies. Other people can be so encouraging, cheerful, witty, &#8230;. and it&#8217;s a good way to discover other bloggers as well through their comments.  And I actually love it when reader comment on other comments as well.  It makes a blog rather than a one to one collection of relationships into an interactive community all triggered by a post. I think that&#8217;s neat. I also reply to the replies on my comment.  I guess I like to see/start little conversations.</p>
<p>but I understand the difficulty of responding to &#8220;woohoo&#8221; comments. Such comments are great but do not require a reply.</p>
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