Comments on: Naive http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/ From the city of three rivers to the city of three towers, and everywhere in between... Mon, 23 Aug 2010 23:29:00 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=2323 By: Marshall Tacdol http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/comment-page-1/#comment-7875 Marshall Tacdol Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:10:47 +0000 http://www.lilacspecs.com/?p=1252#comment-7875 Yes! an app that that enables me to see sky abroad! Yes! an app that that enables me to see sky abroad!

]]> By: bubblewench http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/comment-page-1/#comment-6488 bubblewench Mon, 28 Sep 2009 16:22:13 +0000 http://www.lilacspecs.com/?p=1252#comment-6488 Glad you are happy with your risk. Congrats on the job too! :) Glad you are happy with your risk. Congrats on the job too! :)

]]> By: Goofball http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/comment-page-1/#comment-6487 Goofball Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:22:15 +0000 http://www.lilacspecs.com/?p=1252#comment-6487 If I would have been your friend and I heard you wanted to move across the globe to give a relationship a chance with someone you've seen face 2 face for one week....I would have declared you crazy. But I am not a risk-taker, I'm not an impulsive decisionmaker, I don't entirely trust people I don't know for a while yet, I don't dare to leap into relationships until the point I feel secure that it will last and that we feel we can love each other with each others ups and downs. Haha needless to say that the latter is a bit of contradiction as you can only find out while you are in a relationship. As a consequence I've had very very few relationships in my life ;) So yes, it's good that other people have the ability to make a leap of faith like you did :) If I would have been your friend and I heard you wanted to move across the globe to give a relationship a chance with someone you’ve seen face 2 face for one week….I would have declared you crazy.

But I am not a risk-taker, I’m not an impulsive decisionmaker, I don’t entirely trust people I don’t know for a while yet, I don’t dare to leap into relationships until the point I feel secure that it will last and that we feel we can love each other with each others ups and downs. Haha needless to say that the latter is a bit of contradiction as you can only find out while you are in a relationship. As a consequence I’ve had very very few relationships in my life ;)

So yes, it’s good that other people have the ability to make a leap of faith like you did :)

]]> By: mum http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/comment-page-1/#comment-6484 mum Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:35:38 +0000 http://www.lilacspecs.com/?p=1252#comment-6484 I would rather see you have childish naivete than curmudgeonly disdain ...it is the child in us that keeps things hopeful, bright and cheery when things appear as though they can't possibly get any worse... it keeps you young...I would rather be naive (like I really do believe that in my lifetime I will see changes in people's attitudes on this planet ..we all really can get along and make things better if we try hard enough and elect the leaders that enable that to happen).... keeps me looking forward... You and CB are real gifts to each other...no doubt about that and you clearly were meant to be together in your life's journeys :) I would rather see you have childish naivete than curmudgeonly disdain …it is the child in us that keeps things hopeful, bright and cheery when things appear as though they can’t possibly get any worse… it keeps you young…I would rather be naive (like I really do believe that in my lifetime I will see changes in people’s attitudes on this planet ..we all really can get along and make things better if we try hard enough and elect the leaders that enable that to happen)…. keeps me looking forward…

You and CB are real gifts to each other…no doubt about that and you clearly were meant to be together in your life’s journeys :)

]]> By: jen of a2eatwrite http://www.lilacspecs.com/2009/09/naive/comment-page-1/#comment-6482 jen of a2eatwrite Sat, 26 Sep 2009 21:13:02 +0000 http://www.lilacspecs.com/?p=1252#comment-6482 Um... I bet CB is just as grateful. ;-) Um… I bet CB is just as grateful. ;-)

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